Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.
Ndidawona chifukwa chomwe woyang'anira m'nyumba adamuveka epuloni mpaka mphindi yomaliza. Ngati wina adalowa, akanati akuyeretsa chipindacho ndipo matope a mwini wake ali mkamwa mwangozi.