Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.
Kugonana kwamagulu kokongola, atsikana okongola kwambiri okhala ndi ziwerengero zochepetsera. Ndipo ndithudi amakondweretsa mnyamatayo mokwanira, mwaluso kusintha maonekedwe akhazikitsidwa bwino. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti ophunzirawo adapeza zowoneka bwino zowoneka bwino kuchokera pakugonana kwabwino ndipo chomaliza chinali chachilendo, umuna udagawidwa pakati pa atsikana. Zosangalatsa kwambiri zonse zowonera, kanemayo ndiyabwino kwambiri!
Ndi ntchito yovuta ngati wovula zovala. Azimayi amangopenga chifukwa cha matako ake. Aliyense amafuna kuigwira m'manja mwake, kuigwedeza. Liponyeni mozama mkamwa mwake. Zoipa kwenikweni sizimathera pamenepo. Amataya mathalauza awo ndikuyika dzenje lawo pansi pa tambala wolimba. Ndipo zonsezi zimachitika pamaso pa aliyense.